The assumption that exchanges will adjust to whatever we attempt is faulty.
Ask any businessmen this, this is universal knowledge to anyone that runs a bigger company.
If you are a small startup and you want something from a big company, the number 1 metric is how many customers or business you can give them.
If you’re too small they will give you polite answers (not to burn any bridges) but they won’t do it.
If you grow big enough to send plenty of business their way, they will come to you on how to interoperate.
This is nothing new. This you can find with some deft googling. Ask any company that started as a startup.
Bottom line is, the ONLY thing that is “broken” on Bitcoin Cash that helps faster exchange acceptance is user-base being too small as is the resulting business and price and money that others can make from our coin.