Even if all BCH wallets would’ve continued on the BTC derivation path users would’ve suffered – just in a slightly more devious way where privacy would potentially be degraded instead. Pros and cons, different drawbacks, pick your poison and so on.
I can totally see why Bitcoin dot com did what they did and why they won’t change the default (hint: at the time of the split they already had a sizeable user base with cons on that path). I can also see why new (BCH only!) software would use the same path for ease of portability. But that doesn’t take away the privacy issues that might occur if the same keys is used for different coins, which is pretty much the reason for BIP-44 to exists anyway and a problem that is solved.
Wallet developers should just pick the one they deem proper and go with it and since it is a free choice we will always have several different ones out in the wild. The good news is that wallet developers can help users by scanning paths on import which pretty much removes the head ache from that wallets users.
Didn’t we have this discussion 5 years ago?